As inevitable as taxes, the passage of time, and not being able to find your keys when you're in a hurry.
That kind of inevitable.
I didn't want to miss a single moment of our lovely Christmas. So I simply didn't.
Christmas Day was a quiet, slow sort of day. We didn't start opening presents till almost noon; later we had a wonderful dinner (turkey, pumpkin and apples, delicious homemade stuffing, cranberries, with a crust-less pumpkin pie for dessert). The in-between time was spent playing with the SuperCat and enjoying each other's company. It took SuperCat hours to open her gifts; she needed to play with each thing extensively before she could consider moving on to the next thing. It was great watching her play, showing us how things worked.
The last several Christmases have been difficult. My Dad's health was going downhill around Christmas of 2003, he died a month and a half after that. Because of that, and for other reasons, Christmas has been difficult to celebrate for a long time; some years I've had to force myself to do anything at all.
This year, for the first time in a long time, mostly in response to the unbridled joy that the SuperCat has brought to us and continues to bring us every single day, I did quite a bit more, felt quite a lot better, and have been pretty happy the whole season.
Life goes on, as they say. So...
From the Thursday Thunks(^).
This week we will answer some crazy questions brought to you by Berleen, the color white and the number 78.
No. And how scary is it that that even happens? Can you imagine sitting there, watching the lights twinkle, and all of a sudden, whooosh?
2. How many rings do you wear?
Always the first two, and in various combinations the next three:
* my wedding bands, which started out as two rings, but were connected by the jeweler after our wedding. I'll count those as one.
* a tanzanite and diamond ring given to me by my husband the Christmas after we were married.
* a silver ring with feathers on it that I wear on my thumb.
* a silver poesy ring that my husband gave me.
* a silver ring with a Greek meander (aka key) pattern which looks like this:
3. I say "dog barking", you say _________ ?
He doesn't. My dog almost never barks. He just stands there and looks at you. He growls at people in this really low voice if he doesn't know them at the door, but almost never barks.
4. How many pictures are in the room that you are in.
Two on the wall; old Chinese paintings of birds. Too many to count elsewhere, on shelves, etc.
5. Do you decorate the outside of your house for Christmas?
Some years, yes. Three or four inflatables, lights around the front of the house and in the bushes, a retro plastic Santa...
plus mechanical deer illuminated with white lights, blue and white flowers in the flower boxes, and a winter-themed flag. It's a regular Winter Wonderland.
6. What's your favorite Christmas song?
Carol of the Bells, Mykola Dmytrovych Leontovych, 1916.
7. What do you fill your Christmas stockings with?
I don't. My husband fills mine, and I fill his. Dan grew up in Holland, so I fill his stocking with candy from there like salted licorice (yuck yuck yuck) and marzipan (yummy).
8. How many times a week do you charge your cell phone?
Every night and I usually top it off during the day. I have the G1 Android, and the battery life isn't great, but the phone is beyond spiffy, so it's worth it.
9. Do you own any exercise equipment? What are they?
A treadmill, an elliptical, and those plastic stair stepper thingies used in aerobics class. Plus two of those rubber balance balls, a yoga mat, and some small weights. A bicycle I almost never ride, too, but I'm not sure that counts since (as I said) I almost never ride it.
10. What's your cookie jar look like?
I have 30 or so. Which one would you like to know about?